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High Conflict Divorce: 12 coping skills to deal with toxic ex in court battle

High Conflict Divorce: 12 coping skills to deal with toxic ex in court battle

Are you divorcing your ex and know it's going to be a battle?

If you are dealing with a narcissist or bpd, it won't be an easy divorce

While most divorces are at least amicable and easily resolved, a divorce against someone with a personality disorder is anything but that.

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Are you dealing with a toxic ex and your divorce is full of conflict?

If you are dealing with a narcissist or bpd, it won’t be an easy divorce

While most divorces are at least amicable and easily resolved, a divorce against someone with a personality disorder is anything but. They have to win and prove they are superior to you, no matter the cost. That includes the kids who will be stuck in the middle. Most people aren’t sure what to expect and aren’t prepared when they are coping with a divorce against a narcissist or borderline personality disorder.

If you are dealing with a high conflict divorce, this book can help you to learn what may be coming and how to deal with it. There are tactics you can use and skills that will enable you to survive during this difficult time. If you aren’t prepared, the toxic ex will manipulate you and the court, and they will get everything they want. 

You will learn:

  1. Questions to ask your lawyer
  2. What to tell your lawyer about your ex
  3. Simple techniques to cut down on the lying and manipulation
  4. How to go into mediation like a champ
  5. Find out what type of disorder your ex may have and what to look for

I get it, I do. My divorce started with my ex taking the kids and running to a shelter, claiming I was abusive to her and the kids. And it was all to get her way. We went back to court 8 more times after the divorce and it was a continuous struggle. There is a lot that I learned and a lot that I didn’t expect and had to deal with. This book is a compilation of that knowledge and is designed to inform others of the problems when divorcing someone that will cause conflict.

Get this book before your next court appointment and get control of your life

 

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Divorces are hard to go through for any-body. However, having a partner with a mental disorder can make it worse. Having a partner with a personality disorder can make it even harder. And having someone with narcissistic personality disorder can be torture. Someone with narcissistic disorder often thinks they are above everyone else and are quite manipulative. Therefore, going to a judge will not always help as number one you cannot prove it and number two it is a very hard condition to detect. Someone with narcissistic personality disorder can be very hard to deal with especially as the will often put themselves above you and your children. Most people want the divorce to go as quick and smooth as possible, however when someone has borderline personality disorder or narcissistic personality disorder this is not always possible. This book goes into detail about strategies you can use and how and where to get help. It is a must read for anyone going through this difficult situation and is also an interesting book as it shows you how people with a personality disorder act. Very interesting read, I would highly recommend it.
– Vance Neary
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About the Author
Stephen A. Anthony

I am an average guy that got blindsided when my wife took the kids and ran. She went to a women's shelter claiming I was abusing her and the kids. I didn't know where my kids were or when I would see them again.

That was just the beginning of an 8 + year struggle against her, against the lawyer, against the court. A high conflict divorce if there ever was one. At every turn it seemed no one cared what I was going through, just that it get done quickly. No one cared what happened to my kids. Things I thought were true, weren't and there were many things I should have done differently.

When dealing with someone that has a personality disorder like Narcissism or Borderline, you need to be prepared for a different divorce than most are used to. I want to help others be better prepared for the challenges when divorcing someone that seems crazy to you but normal to the court. Don't put up with the poison that your ex will create while you are splitting.

The series of books I've created are a direct result of my experience and knowledge I've gained talking with lawyer, counselors, teachers, and mediators. If you need the help and don't know where to turn, let me lend you that hand.

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